Monday, December 26, 2016

AXA Psychopath Bully

Image result for sick psychopathWe don’t expect to have to deal with bullying beyond high school. In fact - people are finding that bullying is not limited to adolescence. Staffs/agencies are encountering a sick psychopath bully at Axa. Bully manipulates us to falsely believe his action is just tough or push his subordinates to get results. It’s important to distinguish between a tough boss and a bullying boss.

Verbally abuses you – bully humiliates you in front of others. He talk-down at you and make offensive jokes at your expense. Abusive bully makes snide remarks or offer unfair criticism about you or your work. 

Intimidates you on a regular basis – bully intimidate & threaten to demote you, terminate your agency agreement, withdrawal of benefit, suspension of privilege. Bully threatens to fire staff, cold storage at Axa Head Office or relocate you to a branch far away from your family. This is a fear-management with the object to maintain power and control.

Challenge your adequacy and your commitment – bully questions your commitment and adequacy by belittling your opinions and ideas. Bully purposely do this in public, in-front of others – in chat group in whatapps, at meeting, at Axa Sin Bin (a training program designed to humiliate underperforming agency leaders). Bully blames you for poor production or poor recruitment - while boasting of his skills and past glory.

Undermines your work - bully sets unrealistic deadline that are bound to cause you to fail. He changes contest guidelines – to disrupt, to demotivate, to disqualify you and your agents.  He withholds vital information - to cause failure, to undermine and to sabotage your agency.

Impedes your success – bully don’t want to see you succeed because - he is jealous and he will lose control over you. He abused your agency agreement and punishes you on the slightest excuse – with or without evidence.  He makes it impossible for you to do your agency business.

Spreads rumours about – bully is a big-time gossip monger spreading rumours to make you look bad. He gossips about you recruiting Axa agent into multi-level-marketing or you have joined the competitors. This cowardly act is usually launched at agency meeting. Victims – hit below the belt - are not given the opportunity to rebuke or clarify his slander and mongering.

Isolates you at work - Bullying bosses excludes you socially. He removes you from whatapp’s chat group. Sit you at the end of the hall. He leaves you off party lists. He disallows you to attend work meetings or agency events.


Workplace bullying is not normal in any workplace environment. Repetitive verbal abuse, exploitation, micromanagement and other activities that repeatedly demean you or are discourteous will eventually take a toll on you. Do not complain to upper management because - Bully has the support of his superior. Consider joining AIA, Prudential & Great Eastern – they are truly a multinational corporation managed by professionals – they do not tolerate bully. 

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