If the schoolyard is the stomping ground of bully boys and bully girls, then AXA office is the playground of adult bullies. Bully seeks to make his subordinate staff/agency feels uncomfortable, inadequate, sad or angry. Bully - tends to invoke negative emotions among subordinates.
Disrespect -
every AXA staff/ agency has a war story to share. The CAO likes to whatapps you
at midnight to the wee hours in the morning and expecting you to response
immediately. Staff/agency that failed to response - are branded (in capital
letter) - as Penderhaka, Pengkianat, Traitor, kurang ajar or Jamban (shit-house). Bullies don't recognize their
impoliteness and they don't apologize.
Hurt, Humiliate & Intimidate - bullies do a lot of damage
in organizations. They make staff/agency run scared. They put people in a
protective mode, which interferes with the company's ability to motivate its staff/agency. The
objective of bullying is to hurt someone, lashing out at them, being
inconsistent and chipping away at their confidence. Bullies erode staff and
agency productivity and judgment.
Basically
bully is insecure, insensitive and suffers from inferiority complex. They don't
see themselves accurately but assumes they better than others - which acts to
justify their bullying.
When
a bully is allowed to remain in place, it means the leaders above him are
supporting him. If those in charge look the other way while a bully is abusing
people, then they are the real culprits.
If the top management is afraid of the bully - that can be another
reason this bully is allowed to continue.
Attempts
from staff and agency to enlighten this person will usually be fruitless. Never tolerate a bully - even if you have to quit. I firmly believe that it’s never okay to
be in an abusive relationship. If your business is slowly eroding away your
overall health and well-being, then it’s just not worth it anymore.
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